Your sf persona vs your real life persona

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  1. mikehoncho18

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    How close is your real life persona to how you are here :)

    Explain
     
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    The same. I don't understand why some people feel the need to be someone they aren't? A little protection is provided by it being the Internet. So I'm not going to flash my dick in public or anything like that. Nor would I share my favorite porn clip with someone. But all of that aside. I am myself:D
     
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    Exactly, my thoughts as well.
     
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    I think I am rather different on the site than I am outside the forums. Being able to talk about my sexual preferences is a little liberating and fun. No way would I discuss things like this on Facebook for instance. So I guess if I am fake anywhere it is more so outside the forums as I am more reserved, worried about social status and my work (how staff perceive me).

    I will share porn pics with my mates (especially funny ones) but there is no way I would let them know my real interests and fetishes.
     
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    If you met me offline (outside of a few very select contexts) you'd be hard-pressed to connect the dots to arrive from that persona to who I am on here. (I'll give you three guesses as to which is more true to the Real Me.) The reason largely being my work and some of the social circles I have to move through. The personas line up a bit better once I know you and am comfortable around you, but until then...

    I wish I could say that it was a perfect matchup. I envy those that are the same person everywhere they go - online and/or offline.
     
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    I would say my SF persona is more articulate and confident than my real life persona.... That should probably say everything about how I am in real life. It’s quite a scary thought.

    Here and in the real world I’m a quiet, reserved and shy kind of person. There isn’t really that much of a distinction at all. I don’t suddenly become a dynamic sexual being when I’m here and so far that isn’t me away from here either (one never knows... perhaps I change in the full moon or something). Sometimes I wish it was different but confidence for me is hard earned currency and I’m totally broke.
     
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    I think I am pretty much the same SF just allows me to open up and talk about sex and share photos, stories, past and present experiences. I personally don't have a lot of friends who want to openly discuss sex.
     
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    I'm the same person, however, people will perceive me differently, because I'll let them chose where we go. For instance, I won't talk about sex with people who don't want to talk about sex, even though it's one of my favorite subjects.
     
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    Mrs E says the thing she likes the most about me is I am who I am. I'm the same person where ever I go. Gets me into trouble quite often, but so be it.
     
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    We are the same. In public, private and on here. No shame people should be themselves. Others will accept or not.
     
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    I think many who are different on the net than in real life don't have a choice. The Internet is someplace where they can live their dreams without hurting anyone.

    Of course, there are negative people, but even those, except for extreme cases, just need a bit of attention. This little world of us can be hard on people.
     
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    Pretty much the same. The only real difference is that I don't discuss much of my sex life with my friends.
     
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    My personality is the same on here as in my real life. Only difference between the two in real life I don't run around with my ass and boobs showing lol And I don't flash someone if I hear the number 10.:p
     
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    I'm much different on here. In my life, I'm pretty reserved and bashful. On here, I can let a little of my freaky side show. So thank you everyone for giving me a place to explore myself!
     
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    There's no freedom like letting that freak flag fly. :D
     
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    I don’t think my pics reflect the real me. I am just a regualar chubby Middle aged women.
    I am quite shy about my body and very body consious. But I am a real person and not pretending to be someone else.
    I post my true feeling and thoughts :)
     
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    And I thank you for posting your amazing pictures:)
     
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    10...10...10! :D
     
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    I'm very self conscious too. I have a lot of doubts about my body, my sexuality, my age. But coming here let's me be a little free, show a side I keep hidden from everyone else. I never feel embarrassed here.
     
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    You are welcum, it’s fun to let a side of yourself show that you can’t in real life.
     
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