would you or wouldnt you?sex party

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  1. justaniceguy

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    ok who would out of curiosity go to a sex or swinger party, not to participate but just to look, being inqisitive.....If your boyfriend/husband said to you shall we go to one, only just to watch............WHAT WOULD YOU THINK......male or female
     
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    100% as altho we prob wouldnt participate it would turn me on beyond belief!
     
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    yer, i mean that would be harmless, may be interesting
     
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    Possibly. :) It would be interesting to watch, but yes I could never join.
     
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    we both would be fine with it...would also not mind BEING watched....it's the joining up with others that we're taking our time with....it may happen tho...probably a soft swap ..
     
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    good point 12bar - watched would be fun!!!
     
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    its the exhibitionist in us ...lol
     
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    I'd go and watch but I'm almost 100% sure my missus wouldn't like it one bit.
     
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    I have been to a few gangbangs and swingers parties, either on my own or with a date who was not my wife (swingers parties). I do participate because I do like being watched having sex. My observation of about half of men is the reality is quite different to the fantasy, and having sex in front of others is a bridge too far and nerves gets the better of it all. And if a man is nervous and can't get hard then not much is going to happen.

    I have always been able to get hard but I find that nerves sometimes affects me in that coming can sometimes be a problem, but we always get there even if it takes time and concentration.
     
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    Yes it is...the idea of being watch is a major turn on. I went to a swingers club once but it was not what we thought it was going to be so we just went home and fucked with the blinds open! :lol
     
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    I would wonder why we are only going to watch others :ugh
     
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