Ok, a little background first. We have been together for about 13 years and we have an amazing relationship and a great sex life. We have, from time to time, dabbled lightly in swinging (a few mfms and same room sex with another couple). It was always fun and never caused any problems for us. Now my husband desperately wants me to meet someone new for one on one sex without him. While this idea really gets me going I find that when it comes time to meet someone I have trouble bringing myself to actually set something up. I'd really like to hear from women who have done this before. What was is like? How did you feel about it and how did it affect your marriage? I think in just scared and hearing from those who have done this might help.