So I am feeling that my wife is not giving me a fair share of the space in the house. I give her the first floor, deocrated how she wants it, and I ask for the bassement and share the second floor. My wife says she wants to take over the basement. I often feel that I should not be too assertive with my wife, as I get only a small amount of cooperation in the marital bedroom, as it is. So what if I take the position that the massage does not start, until she provides head? The idea is oaf my wife showing me respect. What if I just offer to let her go down, and usually she passes off on that, and what if I just leave things alone after that, and try again in a few hours, but just keep waiting for days and weeks? Will she eventually give in? Should I be worried, that if I don't do everything to try to please her, that she might have an affair? Should I hope I get the idea of an affair, so that I can hire a PI, and get a fault basis for a divorce? I'm not sure those gay couples are going to be so happy about being married when they find out what the problems are.