Why do I keep thinking this?

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  1. carlgeo

    carlgeo New Member

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    I am literally obsessed with secretly watching my girlfriends best friend (since childhood) have sex with a black man. I do not want to join in but just watch. Her name is Lisa. To describe her, she has blond hair and big boobs with an hour glass figure. In a way, with the contrast in skin colour, I sort of think that this is I deal for a black man.

    Also, she has a black vibrator so I believe (well, I once heard that).

    I know that there are several similar fantasies to this but I feel confused as to why I have it and why it is so dominant in my sexual thoughts. My girlfriend is absolutely stunning and a fox in bed with hardly any inhibitions.

    So why do I have this fantasy?
     
  2. Barbwire

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    Good lord, man! If I stressed about the meaning of every fantasy I have, I'd drive myself insane. You don't need to analyze it, worry about it, or dissect it. It's a fantasy, man, if you can't let your mind run free, how ya going to have any fun?

    If it's not interferring with your non-fantasy life, it's all good.
     
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    Fair comment that makes sense
     
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    Never go back!

    Like the old saying goes, "once you try black, you never go back!"
     
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    Fantasy are just that. Hell I have many, have I lived a few yes of course, are there some that I will never do yes. There is nothing wrong with fantasies, it is a normal healthy thing. It is when you full fill that fantasy and make it a reality is where it can cause problems in a relationship.
     
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    I agree with the above posters. Anything is OK in fantasy...don't worry about why you have it, just enjoy the fool out of it!

    BD
     
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    well heck ill volunteer myself!
     
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    Yes! Give that man some action! My god! That monster needs something to do!
     
  10. sunnysara

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    Heck either do it, or there are lotsa black men w/white or asian women sites out there.
     
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