I speak as someone who is nearly 34 and is still a virgin. Yes, I haven't had sex once in my life, ever. Shocking, maybe? I'm not that way out of choice, it just hasn't worked out the way I would have perhaps liked (no, the way I WOULD have liked). You also begin to wonder at this age if you'll ever speak to any woman who is actually single. The number of times you start speaking to them and somewhere they drop in something about a boyfriend or even a husband is doubly frustrating. People say single women exist, well ok but where? Sure, they don't exactly go round wearing signs saying "hey everyone, I'm single" but you do begin to wonder after a bit. I have tried online dating but you get tired of all the superficial profiles and trying your hardest only to be ignored. Speed dating is even worse...3 minutes to make an impression...how? You do get clubs you can register with on the internet that sometimes organise events but often these are based around trips to bars and pubs and a social life based soley on alcohol and buying large rounds you can't afford gets tiresome after a while. Is there any hope? Or are some people destined to forever be single?