I need some people to help me out here, because I'm at my wits end! D has been having a lot of issues with her body image and self-esteem over the last couple of months. She has been putting on weight because with her new work schedule, general life stresses, and other obligations she has not had as much time as she used to for exercising/fitness training. The thing is she's not even close to being unhealthily overweight or obese. Also, she's been fortunate and is carrying the weight well -- and in all the places us gentlemen like ladies to have a bit more oomph She got especially upset because she had to buy basically a whole new wardrobe of clothing/underwear due to the weight gain/increased measurements. I've been doing all I can to keep giving her positive messages and to support her when/how I can. We are both still very strict about keeping our diet healthy and free of junky bullshit. We both still exercise regularly (although she used to do way more at far more intense levels than I do). I'm drawing a blank at what more I can do here... Am I missing something completely obvious?