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Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by adele, Aug 2, 2003.
is the tongue better than the sword?
Thats a tuff question.Guess it depends on how good you are at using either.
I prefer the "sword" it makes for better riding.
Don't get me wrong the tongue is great but yeah the "sword" can get in tight spots and reach those hard to reach places, besides it's more filling.
So by all means a nice hard sword, is much better if you ask me.
There's time for everything, both could be great if used properly! :brow
how about some tongue and then finish it off with the sword - works for me -
sometimes the tongue just drives me crazy though...
I have to agree with Tina on this one. I start out with the tongue on my wife then finish with the sword. That's always lots of fun.
Skilled use of both is my claim to fame.
Very, very few women can cum from fucking and then in usually two positions: cowgirl and reverse cowgirl.
I've yet to meet a woman who didn't love receiving oral sex. At the risk of pissing off two very obnoxious and attention deprived posters, I'll write that most women can cum from oral sex. Before these two plunge off of a deep end while seeking attention, they ought to read Cosmo and search engine women's preferred method of orgasm. Oral and digital (fingers) stimulation almost always rank as the top two. Of course, I've excluded mechanical vibrators.
My ex had 12 orgasms in one day from expert application of my tongue. She'd almost always cum three times with my face buried in her gorgeous bush. However, after each one, she'd push my head away because of clit sensitivity.
This technique caused my ex to experience explosive orgasms. She videoed one experience in which she can be heard gasping for air as she came: I'd suck her tits and lick her nipples until she would grind her pussy into my abdomen. That was a clear indicator that my ex was about to push me head between her gorgeous thighs. I'd slowly work my way to her tunnel of love that was always dripping love lubricant. I'd lick all around her pussy, gently suck her swollen pussy lips into my mouth, roam my tongue around every part of her pussy and just above her ass until she was squirming. She'd beg me to make her cum. I'd lubricate my ring finger. I'd slide my ring ringer as deep into her ass as I could. I'd slide my index finger inside of her pussy and massage its ridges. Then I'd commence clit work. I'd slowly and firmly apply pressure on her swollen clit until I sensed she was about to cum. Then I'd suck her clit into my mouth while my index finger continued to massage her pussy's ridges. With her clit in my mouth, I'd massage it with my tongue. Her orgasms were massive. It'd take minutes for her to open her pretty eyes. She'd have to moisten her lips before she could talk. She was in sexual bliss for at least five minutes. Then I'd do it again. After her third massive orgasm, I'd yank her off of my bed, bend her over it, smack her ass until her feet were the right distance apart, I'd tell her to put my cock inside of her pussy (she loved nasty talk), when my cock was inside of her, I'd fuck her like a pile driver while nasty talking her and slapping her ass. Many times she'd tell me to pull out and cum on her face, but I couldn't hold out that long. After the incredible, mystical sex we always had that usually left me exhausted are her wafting upon a cloud of sexual bliss, she returned to princess status, and I treated her like the princess she was. But when it was sex time, she was a porn star and wanted to be treated like a porn star.
When the pushing "away thing" happens I just lick her ass and stick and lick.....very gently....
For me it the tongue is mightier and has been mostly. And has I got older now late 50s the sword doesn't stay the way it should. But my tongue is always hard
Mine too. But it always has been...there are more pearldivers than there used to be, for sure...
OP asked the question in 2003..
That's some epic bumping
Reminds me of that Doc guy who gets off replying too Zombie threads he's brought back from the dead from over yonder
You should schedule an appt with him to see what he might be able to do for you.
IMO Vaginal orgasms are as important as Cliteral
Good Morning bear,
What is a vaginal orgasm?
A woman's clitoris is the only cause of orgasm. It is the only organ on the human body (both male and female) that has the sole function of causing orgasm. It has the most never endings of any organ on the human body.
I do know that women's orgasms can be intensified by stimulation of multiple erogenous zones. Many years ago I read a treatise authored by a female physician the thesis of which was women are more likely to pursue multiple partner sexual encounters because they have more erogenous zones. Her theory was that if many of a woman's erogenous zones were simultaneously stimulated along with clitoral stimulation, they brains became overloaded with sexual stimuli resulting in massive and intensely euphoric orgasms to which they became "addicted" and craved.
My ex-girlfriend had a very sensitive ass. She used to almost always want me to massage her ass. While I haven't researched it, I do believe women's asses are more sensitive than are men's. She loved a finger far inside of her ass, with another finger massaging the ridges inside of her pussy while I oral sexed her clit and she rubbed and pinched her nipples. Her orgasms were massive and intensive, and mystically euphoric which caused me to impute validity to that female physician's thesis that overloading a woman's erogenous zones results in massive and euphoric orgasms.
However, biologically, only clitoral stimulation causes orgasms. Women might experience other sexual sensations that might mimic clitoral orgasms. But orgasms result only from clitoral stimulation that result in vaginal contractions.
BTW, my ex had a lot of anal sex experience but not with me. I had assumed she did it to please her boyfriends. She said she did submit to anal sex to get her boyfriends off, but if performed correctly, she enjoyed anal sex. She had told me many times that stimulation of her ass by my merely massaging it caused her pussy to become drenched.
This is only partially true. The clitoris in women and the glans in men have the most never endings of any organ on the human body. However, it is preposterous to say that a woman's clitoris is the only cause of orgasm in women. The same holds true for the glans in men. Every person is different. What works for one does not work for all.
I have known many woman who could orgasm, without having their clit, or any part of their pussy stimulated. I've had many partners, who orgasm, simply by performing oral sex on me. Other women have said that sucking a hot cock to completion makes them cum too. I too know that this happens to males. It has happened to me before. I've been so horned up from eating pussy, that I have cum on occasion, with without any kind of penile stimulation.
I've known many women that orgasm from having their nipples sucked and no other stimulation. I'm not sure about this in men, but I believe it to be true also. A past partner that was very into nipple play got me very close more than once. I'd like confirmation, if any of you men have cum this way.
I know for a fact that many women orgasm vaginally. One past partner did not believe in any kind of foreplay. Sex always went like this... We got naked. I fondled her big tits as she fondled my hardening cock. She would say are you ready. I'd smile and she'd guide my cock into her pussy. She'd orgasm several times, every time. If the OP, or any other male reading this doesn't know if or when a woman is orgasming when your cock is inside her, then you don't know much about women's orgasming. A man who truly knows how to please a woman, knows how to read a woman's body. He doesn't have to ask her if she orgasmed. He already knows she did. This skill has come in very handy with my present partner, as she is very quiet when being pleasured. Even when she's orgasming.
I have also have known women that cum from just anal stimulation. One put it to me like this... Having my tits played with and my pussy licked and fucked is pleasurable, but I only ever cum with a cock in my ass. I also know that males can orgasm by anal stimulation only. I have myself and have seen many accounts of other males orgasming by anal stimulation only.
Yes, the clit/glans are the trigger for most human orgasms, but certainly not the only ones. If you believe they are, you need to retake Sexuality 101.
Shhh, Shhh, Cappy honey. He's delusional and he's confident that he is the end-all-be-all knowledge of the female sex. You'll never convince him otherwise. If every single woman on the forum said "I can cum without touching my clit" we'd all be liars. So, let him have his dillisions. He's a waste of time.
Can you please provide a medical research cite for your statement?
But for a woman's clitoris, would she be able to achieve orgasm?
Is it not true that some cultures remove a woman's clitoris to prevent her from experiencing sexual satisfaction of orgasm?
So how could a woman achieve orgasm without clitoral stimulation?