i've read some of the threads in this category and there is a lot of useful information contained in many of them. i'm curious as to not only what you would do but when you would do it. for example, you've never been with the woman before, but these are the five or ten steps you would follow. of course, being attentive you could deviate from your 'step by step' course at any time, but this would be your foundation if you had to go at it blind, so to speak. i'm interested to hear 'step by step' replies not only from guys describing what and when they would do it, but also from girls describing what they would like done and when they would like it done.