I'm sorry to be graphic and for my first post to basically consist of my throwing my sex life onto the internet but here goes. I have a great boyfriend, of all the fellas I've been with he's the first that I see myself possibly marrying. I won't go into all he's got going for him, he's kind, good looking, very conscious socially, someone I admire as well as like. Sexually its a bit strange, though. The sex is good even though he wasn't all that experienced initially. But its just I'm worried about how his opinion of me for some of the things I've done sexually, and even if some of the stuff I did was even appropriate. I think from the beginning he wasn't happy when I was very overt. You know talking dirty acting a (little) bit slutty I suppose you could call it. So a few weeks ago I went down on him for the first time, it was just a spur of the moment thing, anyway he never looked at me while I was doing it, didn't say a word didn't even try and touch me. When he finished I did something which looking back I probably shouldn't have done, and made a bit of a scene out of swallowing ( which every other guy I've been with loves), which kind of freaked him out. ( and I haven't done since) With a bit of prompting he does talk to me and stroke me when I go down on him now, and he will actually ask for oral sex. But I just get the impression he thinks its a little slutty. Well a few nights ago out of the blue he asked for anal sex. Which kind of shocked me. Anal sex doesn't bother me I've done it with previous boyfriends, but I never told him that .....I'm willing to do it but I just wonder if he thinks I'm a bit of a slut and if that's why he's asking.... I do talk to him about sex .... but it's hard to tell what his real opinions are. I'd welcome any views I can get.