Hey All.. I'm new here. I have a bit of a problem that started a few month back. To give some background.. I started seeing a girl that I had fallen in love with a few years back but never got serious with. I just got out of a serious and sexual relationship with another girl. To make a long story short the girl, whom I had started talking to again, and I had a few drinks and ended up fooling around. I began by kissing her and eventually started fingering her.. she loved it. Then time came to have sex..the problem aside from being pretty drunk, was that I was a bit nervous throughout the situation, maybe because I didn't expect it or because my feelings for her were coming back. I was unable to get an erection. So we ended up fooling around more and went to sleep. Over the course of the next few months we fooled around quite a few times and I was nervous again and again.. my confidence was being hacked away by these situations. I wanted nothing more than to please this girl and have some good sex. I know she wanted to as well but my penis would not cooperate. It was defintely a performance anxiety issue. Her and I are not in a relationship, just close friends so when we hooked up it was spontaneous. Is there any good way to break this cycle? Thanks for listening.