CowboyLover made a very interesting point in another thread in regards to double standards that we have here on SexualForums. She's right. Another fellow member on our lovely forum came in, as a plus sized lady and asked for help on positions. Instead of people giving her their input on what positions they think would be best for a lady that had a little extra meat on her bones, they told her to lose weight. BUT When a male member came in asking how to make his dick bigger, everyone gave him advice, even though he specifically said it was due to his weight that he was having this trouble. I myself gave input on both of those conversations. I told the lady what positions I liked best because I too am a plus sized girl. At a size 18 and weighing far above average, but I carry it well. (Nobody believes me when I say I'm an 18) I know the positions I can and can't get into, I know what Ian (being also a heavy set guy) can or can't get into. He's got an average sized member and I'm more then happy with that. What I too, much like CL, don't understand is how we can be so quick to judge a woman when she comes in with questions like these BUT on the other end of the spectrum, when a man comes in for advice, no matter how frustrated we are with them coming in flashing their cocks at us, everyone STILL without fail, gives them advice. Why is that? Why do you do it? What makes it right to tell a woman to lose weight but a man with an admitted and obvious weight issue, you don't even breathe a word of it?