Life is good, wife is great, sex life is good to great, so what's the issue? It seems to be my growing fetish with large dildos! The thought of my wife using something larger than life is just the biggest turn on! It seems to be growing. I think about it all the time............. The other issue is 5 course sex........I always want it all the foreplay, kissing, teasing, multiple positions, and toys. For her that expectation is almost chore like......knowing that I always want that. I know this..... I don't want her to feel like it has to be Barnum and Bailey circus everytime we have sex, but it doesn't take the want away any advice on this? I hate quickies and to be honest if you gave me choice of a 5-10 minute sex I would pass it just does nothing for me,...... unless she said she wanted that. I think I'm becoming a little OCD whne it comes to sex toys......again any input would be great. We currently have two vibes a Eroscillator and a Silver Bullet neither do much for her. We have two Dildos 8x2 and 10x2.25 and a Anal toy. She's fine with just being with me.........while I want to swing from the banisters.... Thx have a good weekend!!