my girlfriend and me, have been dating for over a year. at the beginning our sex life was perfect. better than ever. it was a gift from god. we love each other so much and plan on getting married and all that good stuff. but just recently about 3 months back. her vagina has been in pain whenever we do it. like right after. its affecting our sex life because her vagina is usually red and when she goes to pee she complains about a burning sensation. were concerned about this and we dont know what it is but we want somebody's opinion. she doesn't want to go to the doctor because shes embarrassed.. she thinks that it might be the birth control causing this. can somebody give me their thoughts on this.. thanks. we are both 19.