Hello, My gf and I are in a long distance relationship. One thing we do to try and keep the sexual part active is give each other spontaneous dares or requests. So for example she might send me a message "go to the toilet in the coffee shop where we once had sex and get yourself off" Not something I would ever do otherwise, but the request combined with the memory are quite a turn on. Generally they are all in some way masturbation related, a kind of substitute for sex that still in a way involves the other person as it is a request from them. This has been going on for a while now and we are both running out of ideas (it's more difficult to keep going that it initially seemed). Does anyone else do this, have suggestions for dares or or have any other suggestions for things like this to spice up a long distance relationship?