Questions about letting my wife have sex with another guy.

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  1. Watchmefuck0-0

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    My wife and I have talked about it quite a lot and we role play it during sex. She is completely on broad with it, but I’m just trying to get some insight as how I should go about it. I’m also on broad with it as well. Just to clear that up.
     
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    There's a huge difference between role play and bringing someome else in. Use various sights to find someone. For the love of God, vet them before you let them in your bed. I don't necessarily suggest using Craigslist unless you're willing to risk it. Fetlife is a fetish based website that allows you to join groups based on interest and location, you may be able to find someone on there. Another option is use tinder but place in her profile she's married and looking for someone to let her husband watch. Shouldn't take long to find someone.

    Meet the guy for coffee or lunch, consider doing it at a hotel so he doesn't know where you live unless you want it to be a regular thing.

    Just remember to be safe and understand that i wrote this at 5am on 2 hours of sleep so if it's not coherent, ask for translation. :p
     
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    Set rules beforehand for all parties and use a 'safe' word to stop any activity that you're not comfortable with. Ours was 'NO' and everyone knew to stop no questions asked!
    In the thirty years that we played outside of the marriage, this has worked for us. Just be sure that everyone is clear on the rules beforehand!!
     
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    I thought you were a woman.
     
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    The first time we used a guy she knew from her college days. After that we used swinging websites and specified that i wanted to watch. It didnt take long to find guys she was into.

    We'd meet for drinks before to make sure chemistry was good. If it was... then we all went up to the room and they fucked like crazy while i watched.
     
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    I didn't let her, but she really wants to
     
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    If she really wants to, you have a great start. See if she is ok with you being there, at least for part of the time while she fucks. That will help you deal with certain aspects of your jealousy, at least you know, at it may really excite you to see her with him. Does she have a man in mind?

    I have been the outside man for couples (a "bull") since I was a teenager, and I have several regular couples now. I know about this stuff. If you have any questions about this kind of sex life, send me a message.
     
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    The question is whether you want to be there to watch or not. It's going to be a lot harder to find someone who will consent to you being there.

    If you do not want/need to be there then just let her find someone she finds attractive and let nature take its course.
     
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    after we split up, I accidentally walked in on her with a guy. She knows that and holds it over me because i loved it
     
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    There are a million threads on this it seems. It's always a huge turn on, and in your mind it may be the perfect night. Just beware, It can also turn out in a negative way. If there is apprehension then I wouldn't suggest it or take baby steps before diving in the deep end. i.e. talk to other guys online, meet for drinks, go on a date, let them hug and kiss at the end of the date. If you both can handle it fine, but be honest with each other. I have a response to a thread on my experience if you're interested.
     
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    Funny thing happened when my wife and I had a mfm. When she was sucking his much larger dick she licked down his shaft and started sucking his balls, I mean for several minutes. She had never sucked my balls. On top of that minutes later after he came in her and he pulled out which took a few minutes since she kept telling him to keep it in her she sucked his dick some more. She had never sucked me after I came in her. So the following day after she orgasmed from him fucking her doggy ( I had never made her cum that way) she turned and sucked him, he came in her mouth. I had never cum in her mouth and never did till years later.
    I'm pretty sure she was putting me in my place. At the time I of all this I thought about how we had sex prior to this. We would make out and she would suck me a little before I went down on her getting her close to climax when she would pull my head up and mount her missionary as she came and usually I did as well. How boring that must have been for her, time after time.
    He fucked her how I wished I could and I'm sure she wished I could. Even though it still makes me depressed I get hard thinking about him fucking her and how she responded vigorously to his penetrations.
     
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    That's EXACTLY what my situation was. I'm sure that he opened her up to completely new experiences
     
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    When my girl started fucking other guys she really got into it. She sucked his dick like I've never seen her do before. She moaned and talked dirty like a porn star. Our sex life did get better after she started fucking other guys. We dirty talk while fucking... talking about how naughty she is and whatnot.
     
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    What I would suggest is this. You, the male, are ok with your wife having sex with another guy. It may be your idea. She is on board with it. These are all things decided in your head only! It's one thing to be ok with it mentally and another to see it in action. You may have a totally different reaction when it comes to fruition. Make sure your wife knows this.
     
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    Just be prepared for not liking it. If you can be prepared for that, and have the strength to deal with it after, then it can be an amazing experience to see your wife fuck another man. CRAZY hot!!!
    The first time I saw a guy slowly enter her was literally the hottest thing I have ever seen. Now we have seen and done, so much more.
     
  16. Brady

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    You said it! Completely agree.
     
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    Brady, the first time I saw that, it was the hottest thing I've ever seen.
     
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    I agree. But she first started sucking him off... that was amazing.
     
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    I accidentally walked in on them long after that. He had her legs behind her head and came with her begging and screaming.
     
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    I I do love seeing guys play with her tits....
     
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