Prostate massage

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  1. Yorkie

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    Well, ive finally got around to wanting to exploee prostate massage. I went and bought me some latex gloves, ky, i also dug out my wifes vibrator and a condom. I went straight for the vibe, got it lubed up and in it went. I was really surprised how easy it found its way in and before i knew it i ad got it in to the hilt, all 6 inch of it. It wasnt painful. I left it there and sqeezed my ass tight a few times and all was good. My aim was to find my prostate and try get the great feelings i have read about. I withdrew a bit as i knew i was too deep for that. What a strange feeling when withdrawing, slighly scary feeling really when you take things out. Well i continued to try finding my prostate but couldnt seem to find it. I have tried for the last 3 days with both my fingers and vibe. I am finding it a bit more pleasureable when i try now but i still dont seem to have found what im looking for. Has anyone got any advice on what i need to do next.
     
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    Don't have any pointers for you other than to get your own butt toys. I'd lose it if I found out my hubby was using one of my toys in his ass, condom or not.

    There are lots of butt toys made for men, do yourself and your lady a favour and get one.
     
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    It's easier to lay on your back and put it in at an upward angle just a few inches. Like Barbwire said though, get your OWN toys. Using your wife's vibrators, condoms or not is just not acceptable nor is it hygienic.
     
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    Ok thanks for the replies so far. Id like to clarify it is not one she will be using again as this one has been replaced by her new ones and i wouldnt put it back in her toy box.
    Im gonna wait a few days then try again. It has made me a bbit tender down there im trying too hard to feel any effects, maybe im too impatient
     
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    You could always ask the wife to assist, she should be able to get a much better angle.

    Here's a hint, generally not that far "in" and it's upward towards your package. Should swell as you get more aroused.

    When you find it and have an orgasm from massaging it, it's something worth finding that's for sure.
     
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    if you'll find your prostate, don't poke it, it is more tender then balls

    but you don't really need to locate it, it is all about the hornyness

    :lol
     
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    When I started with any kind of backdoor play I used a set of anal beads and slowly withdrew them when coming to an orgasm, for some reason I could feel them rubbing my prostate every bead on the way out and after that had an easier time finding it.
     
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    Try an Aneros. Their forums have a ton of information. If your wife / GF will participate, it is a huge +.
     
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    I'm very interested in prostate massage. Unfortunately, I can only play with fuck buddies, because my man doesn't want it.

    What I've been doing is inserting one or more fingers in a man's ass. I curve it like a U and massage the prostate with different strokes. It is important not to bend it like a V, because when one strokes, it may irritate the sphincter.

    The prostate is very easy to reach, close to the sphincter. Even short fingers like mine can do it.

    I also play with toys.

    My favorite game is giving oral while massaging with my fingers while there are beads there, too. Not all guys can take it.

    Then I'll pull some beads and resume massage, all the while sucking hard on his dick and sucking air to provoke vibrations.

    Guys go crazy when I do that. I love to feel them twitching, groaning, panting... nothing like making a man lose his mind with pleasure.

    But I still have a lot to learn. I'm new to it.
     
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    Nothing better than a prostate massage accompanied by a blowjob. Pure Bliss !
     
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    It seems it's appreciated.

    But I see even more of the bliss effect when I do extreme stuff with a couple of men I play with sometimes. Namely, sounding. I can't believe something so grotesque looking can possibly feel good, but for them, having a sound and getting licked and receiving other oral stimuli is on top of their list.

    I'm not saying anyone should try! It can be very dangerous!
     
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    Scares me. Infections...no thanks.
     
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    Exactly. I think it's crazy. There's also a danger that the urethra gets ruptured.
     
  14. goander

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    Probably a sensation I may never experience :p
     
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    Caveat I’m not gay, total hetero here, I’ve had the luck of getting my prostate massages by a woman that totally knew what to do. Since then I’ve tried many times to repeat that experience
    It’s Easier to find it when your already very aroused as in close to climax, the closer you get the more pronounced, larger/harder it is and easier to find. It’s like a little marble think about how you reach a woman’s g spot, it’s similarly located. Easier to find w finger at first before a toy. Try squatting flat footed and use your middle finger go in from the front of your body and hook it forward and do the come hither motion
    If your flexible enough and have big hands you can try using your thumb from behind in the same squatted position but this is not easy to do unless you are flexible...happy hunting
     
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    Try the Aneros Progasm.
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  17. used2bgood

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    This is the best item available! I've used one for twenty years until lost prostrate to cancer. The orgasm is the best ever. Trick is to give it some time and clear your mind and listen to you body!

    I whole heartily recommend it!!
     
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    Yes, patience is a must but so well worth it !
     
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