Problem Getting Turned On

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  1. Jane948

    Jane948 New Member

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    I have had issues lately ... Vlad finally stopped being so damn tired and wants some fairly often now but I cant seem to be as interested as I normally am. I normaly just dismiss these feelings and try to get on board and have a pretty good time but last night NOTHING worked for me. I was so frustrated, we even watched a sexy movie, that just agrivated me more. I was having really restless legs and was anxious (I've had issues with that lately) and annoyed. The only thing that calmed me down was Vlad giving me a massage and me doing my Yoga breathing exersizes. Vlad was more then understanding when I told him how I felt but was a bit disapointed. My complaint isn't about him cause he is a hottie, this is about me ... does it sound like there is something SERIOUSLY wrong? Do you guys think its a one time thing? Do you think it has anything to do with my diabetics? I hope someone can help
     
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    Maybe a check up at the doctor would put your mind at rest?
     
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    There are a lot of reasons for this happening. I suggest going to a doctor you feel comfortable talking to and explain your situation.

    It sounds more physical that mental to me so I don't think there is a whole lot you can do other than that.

    Good luck and sorry to here that
     
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    I don't feel comfortable talking to anyone about this (at least not face to face) ... I can barely talk to Vlad about it.
     
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    I agree with Vampire Raver.. I would see a doctor. Also, how's work or school? Maybe something else is stressing you out and you're bringing that home.
     
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    Currently I'm working with Vlad's mom in her tutoring kids business. I also have 2 projects on the sidelines ... I like being busy. I have break in college right now but I'll be doing some stuff for that in July. The weard part is everything seems to be going better then ok.

    I had a car accident in April and maybe on some level I'm still dealing with that. It was a pretty big crash, I completely totaled the car.
     
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    Yea, you could be dealing with that still.. Especially if it was bad. Hmm. I don't really know what else to do except maybe see a dr. Sorry. :)
     
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    It seems like it would be your best answer to go to doctor.... psychologist or sex therapist? Maybe you are suffering from depression. or the diabetes could play a role
     
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    its ok, not your fault for sure lol

    lets just say i hit 1 car and 2 walls of a high way at 55mph ... breaks gave out. physically I'm fine now but maybe no so much emotionally.


    I'm actually seeing a therapist cause of the accident.
     
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