My girlfriend and I have been exchanging fantasies, ideas, reveries, whatever you would care to call it. And I recently discovered a particularly bold fantasy, and I'm wondering if it's bad. I've heard some theories about women having rape fantasies, but my girlfriend actually has one. She said that she would want to do it almost in a roleplaying situation, I am the dominant spouse and she the submissive, and she would actually want me to physically rape her. Pinning her arms above her head, not allowing her to move, hitting her, the whole nine yards. While I really want to be able to help her live out this fantasy, I'm very nervous about the whole thing. I'm afraid that I won't be able to do it when the time comes, or that maybe I'll do it too over the top in an attempt to please her and it will scare her. Can somebody please help me? p.s. My girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, and we don't see each other all that often, so I have plenty of time to think about this.