OK, so I've mentioned a few times that our libido has been waning ever since the birth of our son. We've been working through it, and have been making some progress. Our trip to Mexico sure helped!! :brow I'm sure a lot of it is stress-related, but I was thinking there may be more to it than that. My wife has been on the Pill since soon after we started dating. She came off it when we decided to have a child, but then resumed after he was born. We had a lot of difficulty conceiving, and with my side ruled out, it was determined to be a hormonal issue on hers. She had to take fertility drugs to make it happen. No biggie, she took the drugs, a month later she was pregnant. Life was good! Anyways, it's almost 4 years later, and her sex drive is quite low. Oddly enough, she libido returns on the week she's not taking any pills. That's frustrating for both of us, however, as there isn't much we can do about it during that week. We have both agreed that sex during her period is a turnoff for us both. After her going through another horny phase during her period last week, then it disappearing after starting to take her pills again, things finally started to come together for me. I did some searches here but didn't find anything on the subject. So I just hopped on Google and found TONS of information on it. This article in particular from WebMD caught my attention: http://www.webmd.com/content/Article/84/98116.htm So now I know it may be part of the problem. My question is, what is the solution? Besides a vasectomy or condoms, is there another effective form of birth control out there that may not mess her up so badly? Anyone else experience this? Help!