Penis hurts <.<

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  1. confused_lad

    confused_lad New Member

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    Hey,

    Happened quite a few months ago.. i slept.. well tried to sleep with my girlfriend for the first time. When i tried to penetrate, i seemed to have torn a part of skin on my penis. it bled quite a lot and that was kinda the end of the sex :p it hurt like hell too..
    found a good pic of what i mean, but i'm not sure if i am allowed to post the pic here in the forum.. just a pic of a penis :p (let me know and i'll upload it)
    anyway.. it has happened again 2 times.. one of those times scaring me as i bled a lot!
    but this only happens when i dont use a condom.. when the condom is on, no pain... when its off. skin streches a lot and ouch..
    is this a lubrication problem?
    do any other guys have anything to say about this?
    Thanks!

    look forward to reading your answers :p
     
  2. lbushwalker

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    Yep, that happens even to us old vets.
    Sometimes during her cycle even when your partner is aroused and ready, her secretions are real thin and a bit of synthetic assistance helps here a lot.
    Try using a water soluble lubricant for starters but without condom the best is a silicon one, magic for both partners!
    Hey BTW dude "sleep" is a bullshit word for sex and , aint it just sex?
     
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  3. confused_lad

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    yeh i dno, for some reason started using it :p sorry^^
    SEX... sex sex sex sex sex... there we go !
    thanks for advice!
    always rely on this forum to help me out!
     
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    Stick with condoms and lube if you don't want any STD/Is or babies.
     
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  5. onedropthebomb

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    I'd avoid sex if it hurts? Sounds really painful though
     
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    lubricate!
     
  7. confused_lad

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    it hurt like hell dropthebomb!
    but you guys are right... Lube lube lube.. all the way!
     
  8. onedropthebomb

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    Hopefully you won't have another experience like this.
     
  9. CosmicEye

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    ^Wait wut...? I have no idea whats going on with that.

    Oh right, yeah.. that sucks and I hope that never happens to me. I would just let it heal and use lube next time. Besides they got these warming ones that are just.. just great. Its a good excuse to try it :) Is it that she is not wet enough?

    And btw yes it is ok to post pics of yourself
     
  10. rebecakasak

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    with forced retraction(pushed back) of the foreskin you penis could hurt, it happens and it is natural...everything becomes normal as you go for more drives..all the best ;)
     
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