Orgasm without erection

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  1. Male_mid_50s

    Male_mid_50s New Member

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    Two years ago I had prostate surgery and have not regained any erectile function. However I can still orgasm. My partner and I had dealt with this and still can please each other. However without an erection its difficult so I am seeking those who might have similar issues and have suggestions on how I can reach orgasm without so much trouble. Here is what we do now. Hand jobs work but again since I am flaccid it takes more work )a lot) and one hand can tire before I finish. We also rub my penis on my partners gentilia which does give her pleasure until I finish. Problem is same there seems to be no one way or place for continued pleasure so it takes a while. We are seeking other means for my pleasure that might not be so tiring. By the way we have tried Ed meds and pumps with no effect. I am guessing they were not able to spare the nerves when my prostate was removed. My partner will no longer do oral because there is some urine that comes out when I do finish and she not to pleased with that you can imagine. I looked at some mens health forums but no real answers so I am trying here. all answers are gladly accepted
     
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    Would a vibrator for you be useful?

    Is your prostate entirely gone? If not, perhaps a prostate stimulator?
     
  3. Male_mid_50s

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    Yes its gone
     
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    Ask your urologist about a penile Implant, I have one, and it has saved my sanity....
     
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  5. biker061

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    Perhaps a prostetic penis?
     
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