Orgasm problem during masturbation

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  1. Ghosty

    Ghosty New Member

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    Hello,

    I have a fear problem.

    If I masturbate or have my girlfriend done that to me I can get an orgasm. Lately I tried anal stimulation together with the masturbation. When I tried the stimulation together with masturbation I noticed I got a very warm feeling but I could not have an orgasm. As soon as I stopped the anal stimulation I could. So when I would have a normal orgasm with anal stimulation it feels like I am going to have one but there is no ejaculation while tension is building up so I do not dare to do it when I am about to get a normal orgasm. I just can't ejaculate when I should have had one so I let go and get afraid.

    Is it harmful? I do like both stimulation but now I do not dare to anymore... I hope anyone could give me advice on this.

    Thank you,
     
  2. Logger

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    It may just be your individual make-up, or emotional structure of trust at this time in who you are. Sex is a very personal situation, and if anal stimulation keeps you from coming, then just let your girl friend know. Sometimes my wife rubs my rim with a finger or two, and that helps me ejaculate, usually. but just be nice to yourself. Sex is individualized, and is meant to be enjoyed. So I hereby command you to enjoy sex, and stop worrying about your individuality.

    Blessings
     
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    Da_Vamp New Member

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    I do hope you find out the answers. But if i were you, I'd see a doctor. Just to make sure everything is in "working" order!

    JMHOP,
    Vampie
     
  4. FleshJoe

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    I don't think its at all harmful, and in fact I suspect the warm feeling you're getting is an anal orgasm which is quite different from an ejaculatory orgasm.
     
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