Ok, heres my problem

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by anynamewilldo, Jul 2, 2007.

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    anynamewilldo New Member

    Jul 2, 2007
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    I am 8 months pregnant. In the last 5 months, boyfriend and I have had sex twice. This is really bothering me. I'm going to use some common sense and say that it is my growing figure that is throwing him off. I can only imagine that he does not find me attractive when I am this big. He says it is due to stress, but the timing of it leads me to believe it's how I look. That's our first problem. How can he say he loves me but then would be so insensitive to not have sex with me simply because of how I look pregnant?

    Second problem, for the last 5 months, I have been masturbating almost daily with porn and a vibrator. Now I am very scared that if he ever is interested in me again, I will not be able to orgasm without the vibrator and porn. He does not know I look at porn and I am not interested in telling him about it. Yesterday, I wanted to have sex just because I miss the intimacy and feeling his arms around me. But I knew I wouldn't be able to orgasm without porn and a vibrator. So I started to masturbate and then went into the bedroom all ready to go and attempted to initiate it and of course he didn't want to. So I went back and finished without him. I'm so frustrated. I don't know if I'm looking for answers or just want to bitch. I'm feeling so many emotions right now....being pregnant probably doesn't help. Oh, BTW I don't think he is masturbating either. The two times that we did have sex, he came almost instantly like he hadn't had sex in 5 months.

    Do you think I should stop masturbating so that I will still be able to orgasm with him? I think a vibrator is kinda hard to match and I may get desensitized. Does that happen? I'm noticing that it is taking me longer and longer to orgasm with the porn and vibrator too.
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