my girlfriend and i have just started to mess around sexually and she's not ready to do anything with my penis...which is fine cuz i want to make her totally comfrontable. unfortunately i always end up with blue ball afterwards and ouch! as of now all i do is take advil and masturbate after i get home from it all. im pretty sure everyone has had blue ball before cuz i know most of my friends have but they don't know how to get rid of it. :cry can blue ball end up doing serious damage :eek on the testicals with all of that pressure build up or whatever? also is there anything i can do that will make the pain go away fast :ugh ?