I am a happily married Sailor and my wife is in the AF. We are always open to try new things and honestly it gets hard thinking of new things to try. We go through books, webpages, toys, and still we want more. The only thing that is off limits is a mfm 3 some. I'm not ready for anything like that, I dont know if i could deal with it. She is completely okay with that too. Although we do use toys to simulate mfm 3 somes. Since we are both in the service we spend many months apart (going on 8 months apart now), but we have phone sex and video sex. That gets us by during our deplyments. I look forward to learning new things and sharing some of my experiences with you all.