Well where to begin. As some of you may know I had Gastric Bypass surgery about 2 years ago. I've lost alot of weight (about 185 in total, have gained some back now heh) During the few months before and now the nearly 2 years after, I've been very good friends with an older woman who also had the surgery. She's 47 and I'm 27, she's also married. We've been very close friends now for about a year or so, and we've always joked around and teased each other. But recently the teasing has gotten a bit more, sexual in nature. Normally when we talk or go out to the mall to hang out. Especially on the phone since I'm not a wuss on the phone (as some of you may know also) and lately these discussions on the phone include alot of sexual innuendo, nothing explicit but alot of "we should do it" "I think your hot I don't care what anyone else says to you!" that sort of thing, nothing like "suck my cock!" or shit like that of course. Now let's get one thing out of the way. I don't want to deal with a married woman. But she's in a horrible situation with her Husband who treats her like complete crap. He's so bad to her she's tried to overdose a couple of times because she can't get rid of him without losing her house. And she's told me several times, if she was "a little younger or I was a little older" and she "wasn't married of course" things might be different between us. So here I am. I don't know what to do at this point. Her own therapist even told her to just "do" me and forget she's married. Her friends all said we should get together. So the question is, should I persue it further, being she is married, regardless of it being a bad one or not. Plus she's 20 years older than me (which I don't have a problem with at all). I don't know how I feel about her anymore, is it love, is it lust...or is it the fact that I'm desperate for any kind of relationship I'd take a chance on this kind of thing. I just don't know anymore.