[Ask a Girl] Motivation to wear erotic lingerie/make-up

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  1. bubo

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    I really like erotic lingerie and sexy make-up (lipstick and eyeliner is enough for me). When a woman spends the effort it can be a huge boost for me.
    However, my SO doesn't wear any lingerie and she doesn't even own it. I bought a few sexy panties to her but she says that it's not very comfortable, thus she doesn't wear them.
    I tried to drop some subtle hints, but with no success. After a few months trying the hints I even explicitly told her that I would really like if she wore something like that (on several occasions when we had a nice pillow talk). She said she will think about that, but ... nothing happened yet.
    I even offered her that I will buy it, but she says she has to buy that kind of things herself.
    I'm always trying to find good moment for the hints, to not sound pushy. So I have this question, how can I motivate my girl to wear those things? Girls, what can give you real motivation to go shopping a sexy nightwear?
     
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  2. wanderingwife

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    Could you take her to pick something out together?
     
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    Love to take you.....shopping ;)
     
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    Yay shopping! I do have expensive taste
     
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