Missed Opportunities to Increase Wife's Level of Arousal

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  1. Logger

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    Last Night I just caressed my wife's boobs and pubic mound. I was tired, and just happy with her breasts, and fell asleep, thinking of my wife's nipples.

    I could have gotten up and moved to a position to suckle. My wife 97% never refuses to let me take off her pants. I didn't try.

    I could have gotten out my 7 Inch DVD, while she was watching her show. I did not even get my bag of goodies from the closet and open up my lubes and sensuous DVD's.

    I did not get myself a hard on, to press against her buns.

    I did not set my alarm so that I had sufficient time with my morning woody with my wife.

    My admissions of neglect are to serve as a lesson to myself. Also I complain that I don't get sex when I want sex, but I don't adapt myself to my wife's schedule.

    This thread may also serve other men ore ladies who feel there is a difference in sex drive. I think the person who wants more sex, should look for ways to be more arousing, and more accommodating of schedules.
     
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    That is an important point. I wish my hubby would think of it that way. He always says he wants more sex....but doesn't do anything about it.
     
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    Dear Lusty Dreams,

    Thanks for your supportive post.

    I have found another thread that I started on a similar subject, entitled Bugled Seduction Oportunites. Link:
    http://www.sexualforums.com/talk/showthread.php?t=2139


    This thread title, Missed Opportunties to Increase Wife's Level of Arousal, probably gives more recognition to the idea that women have various levels of arousal. As a woman's arousal increases, her degrees of permission and participation will expand, as a husband more expertly massages and caresses .

    Since you had not received a gift yet, I decided an anniversary cake would be sufficiently respectful to your husband. Whenever you have an anniversary, please remember I have extended best wishes.
     
    #3 Logger, Aug 7, 2006
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    Thank you for your gift :) That makes me feel special! Our official anniversary is in April, but we have a special one coming up in Oct. and I will remember this :)
     
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    "Last Night I just caressed my wife's boobs and pubic mound."

    I'm happy for ya..... one day you'll both be dead, take advantage NOW!
     
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