I have a few questions to ask, but first a bit of background... I am a virgin at 18, (not had sexual intercourse) I have recieved oral sex many times and on occasion been "fingered." I have been preparing myself to loose my virginity to my current partner. I have never had any trouble with the insertion of tampons (even the "super" ones), nor been hurt in a any way with the insertion of my partners finger. I have never bled or been in a any discomfort or pain. I would like to know whether my hymen has broken or stretched and how do i tell? Also, will the gradual inserion of another finger be preparing my vagina for the act of sex for the first time? Is there any other way i could prepare my vagina so that my first time can be less painful/ pain free?