I am sure there has probably been a thread for this before, but I didn't see one. What is your kinkiest fantasy you have ever had? Have you actually gotten to do it? Mine would be being completely helpless in a busy place. Tied to a bed or bent over a chair. Letting anyone use my body in any way they wanted. Using any type of toy or clamp on me and fucking me however they want. I think it's the complete lack of control, but it gets me really hot. I have told my man about this and he seems kind if hesitant about it. Of course since I am in committed relationship, I would want it to be only him that uses me (unless he wants to invite a friend :eyes). I love the thought of being his little slut that can't say no. We have role played a bit with bondage and he has spanked me and slapped me a little bit. We have even discussed having a "safe word" if I really wanted to stop. I think he is just getting used to the idea that I really like that once in awhile and it's not abusive lol. Anyone know how I can get him more comfortable with the idea?