It Takes too long

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  1. BuddyLov

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    I cant cum like I use to. I dont feel it as I did. It takes me so long to cum I get sore first. What can I do to help make it feel better?
     
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    Re: It Takes to long

    I honestly don't know how to answer this. Sometimes it's that way with my fiancee. I normally try to get him really worked up first. Generally even w/o touching him I can get him to that point where he wants to explode, so it takes him very little time to actually cum once we do touch/make love.

    How old are you if you dont mind me asking?
     
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    Re: It Takes to long

    Yeah, I was gonna' ask the age too.....
    There's any number of things that could have a bearing on this.....

    Welcome to SF BuddyLov....:welcome





    And after seeing your pics.....I can understand why:brow
     
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    *Blushes* You guys <3
     
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    Re: It Takes to long

    I'd also ask how old you are, are you on any medications, and how often do you have sex?
     
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    Re: It Takes to long

    or alcohol? That can really prolong it too. If you will answer the above questions, maybe we can start to put together a better answer. Are you talking about during intercourse with a partner, or masturbation or both? Masturbation can dull the senses and cause the real thing to last longer. Partly because the fist has a much tighter grip than a nice warm wet vagina.

    EDIT: Okay, one question answered. You say in your profile that you love to masturbate. That's the first thing I would recommend changing to see if it helps.
     
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    I am 45. I last almost 8 hours. Some times I well start masterbating at around 8 pm and it takes me untill 2 am to cum. I get harder right before I cum.
     
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    Jeeesus.....buddy.....to my knowledge, most guys have no trouble coming within about 5 mins of starting to masturbate:eek
    8 hours man!!.....I'd be wearing off skin going that long.....:ugh
    Does it take the same amount of time with a partner?
    You say that *it gets harder before I cum*....does that mean you don't really get an erection for several hours before?
    If the answer is yes to the above questions mate.....I'd say there's a gotta'be some sort of underlying medical problem here.....have you talked to your doctor about this?
     
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    same problem here but i go for three hours,more or less...its kinda frustrating
     
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    i just cant cum when im having sex it sucks it would normally take forever if i was able too
     
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    Ironically a lot of guys would want to delay their ejaculation times. I am one of them. I would love to last longer than 5 minutes while having sex. I have seen people doing lots of exercising and stuff to help them go beyond 20 minutes. Lasting an hour would be a dream come true.

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    BuddyLov do you keep pleasuring yourself for 8 hours with hand etc. without stopping???
     
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    An hour would bore a lot of women to death. They would have to resort to the old faithful fake O just to get you to stop. 20 minutes is closer to ideal, I think.


    That was what I wondered too.

    Welcome to SF, Gooolist. Don't forget to fill out a profile and introduce yourself to everybody. You can check out the links in my sig.
     
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    It's not boredom that would be the issue, it would be pain. Women just can't stay wet for that length of time and being fucked dry is a nightmare.
     
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    Stop masturbating so much, go a week without doing and try. Overuse and age can numb you to it.
     
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