It seems most of the members here say they wouldn't cheat on their spouses/partners, but we all know it happens with others, and I believe it could happen to most people given all the right circumstances. IF you can imagine that it happened to you (you were drunk, halfway around the world, just had a long distance fight with your S.O., hadn't had sex in a year, etc., etc.) and you were relatively certain he/she would never find out about it unless you admitted to it... 1. Would you admit it to your partner immediately? 2. Would you plan to admit it later (months or years)? 3. Would you keep it to yourself? 4. If the situation was reversed, would you want to be told? I've seen comments in other threads that made me wonder. (No, I haven't gone out and done something stupid. I'm just curious.) I'd probably keep it to myself, and I think I'd rather my wife did the same under those circumstances.