So this might seem like a really simple problem (and maybe it is, maybe it isn't). I'm in a long distance relationship with my current boyfriend, and we usually live together for a month at a time with about one or two months in between visits. Due to certain past and ongoing health problems, I don't really have the most active sex drive, however he does seem to drive me crazy in a way other guys can't seem to. He's very thinky and not as feely (though he does have his gooey moments which are very sweet), and I'm the same way. So basically we both tend to get lost in our thoughts. We have okay communication (could be better, but it's acceptable) in the bedroom, and are both eager to please the other. The problem is that the only way we're able to reliably orgasm each sex session is with oral sex. Penetration doesn't always work for him, doesn't always work for me (though I guess that's sort of normal for women, no?). I mean, there's nothing wrong with oral sex, but it would be really nice if we could both have orgasms in other ways often. I don't know about him, but I know that for me, if sex itself lasts longer than like 30 minutes, there is almost no chance I'll be able to climax. Does anyone have any tips or advice? Maybe suggestions for good positions for maximum MALE pleasure? I've tried some different things, and he seems to be just barely less tricky than myself. Sex with him really does feel great, but we just can't seem to get there as often as we would like! Ahhh! I'm flying down to see him in about a week. Would be awesome if I had some new things to try when I get there. I'm also new, so I apologize if this post isn't where it should be or something.