Hi everyone I have been stalking around on this forum for a while, and all the time i have had one problem that i don´t know how to "solve" even though i have read the advises well here it goes: I am not a very experienced person, i have been with a girl a few times, and then only some heavy petting. But my problem is, that whenever i am alone with a girl, and we start touching each other. I become almost complete numb at my penis. i have read a few of the threads around here, that states that if you masturbate alot and do it a bit rough, it can affect it ( i think i do that, so i can solve that just by stopping with that) the other solution could be that it is psychological and i think it is that which is my problem. The last time, i tried to just lean back and "feel" it. and i got a bit of the feeling back again, but only in short "bursts" can anyone else see anything else that i can do?