I'm not trying to bring y'all down by my post, but hoping to find some insight and perhaps advice. My husband passed away 15 months ago from cancer. I'm still very much in the grieving stages, and miss him so much it hurts. Lately, I have been feeling very lonely in all ways, but mostly sexually. I've started to feel sexual again, very horny (which is what led me here) and think I want to have a sexual relationship with someone. I got so close as posting an ad on Craigslist looking for a FWB. After sorting through the creepers, I found someone that seemed very nice, respectful and that I'd enjoy being with. But, I couldn't do it! I chickened out of even meeting him for lunch, something totally innocent. Ugh. My question is - how have you moved on from a past marriage, relationship, etc to a new one without being a total chicken like me? Thanks in advance for any input!