How to make wife horny

Discussion in 'Ask a Guy/Girl' started by smooth69, Oct 30, 2017.

  1. smooth69

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 18, 2017
    Messages:
    377
    Likes Received:
    553
    Gender:
    Male
    ladies I’ve been married about 20 years , my wife’s sexual desire has really reduced
    What do you recommend I do to turn her on and get her horny sometimes ? I’m strong , clean and shaven ready for anything and maybe get a hand job once in a while
    Need more suggestions please !
     
  2. Long stroke

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 15, 2017
    Messages:
    321
    Likes Received:
    802
    First, you should talk to her and let your feelings be known to her. Take her out and wine and dine her like when you were dating. Women are very emotional creatures and like the hugging, cuddling and being treated like a lady thing.... Only other thing I could suggest is that somebody else is satisfying her pretty good on the side.
     
    Gmsexycpl, sensless and smooth69 like this.
  3. Alwayslearningsex

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Oct 29, 2010
    Messages:
    3,599
    Likes Received:
    1,818
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Canada
    If some event or a milestone in her life reduced it, maybe hormones? I am no doctor, just throwing a suggestion in there.

    A family event totally killed a co-worker's wife's drive, not has has 2 girlfriends, LEFT and RIGHt hands. and maybe it will never come back.

    Health of the relationship, if she feels valued, but not like she has total control also.
     
  4. Alwayslearningsex

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Oct 29, 2010
    Messages:
    3,599
    Likes Received:
    1,818
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Canada
    If those boxes are ticked, the little things that turn a woman on I guess.
    It doesn't have to be outright sexual things, but sometimes a little sneaky message how you want her,
    plant the idea in her mind that maybe .... something special and intimate is something to consider.

    Ladies from SF will be better at helping you here LOL
     
    smooth69 likes this.
  5. privatepartner

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Oct 3, 2017
    Messages:
    970
    Likes Received:
    1,676
    Gender:
    Male
    Join the millions of other men that don't have a sex life at home. Jeez I wonder why the divorce rate is 50% or better?
     
  6. SuperDilf

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 4, 2017
    Messages:
    941
    Likes Received:
    720
    Gender:
    Male
    May I suggest massive bong rips and the A side of Rush 2112?
     
    BeBop, dimebag, Jkeel5150 and 4 others like this.
  7. privatepartner

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Oct 3, 2017
    Messages:
    970
    Likes Received:
    1,676
    Gender:
    Male
    Suggested that to wife yesterday:p
     
    SuperDilf likes this.
  8. privatepartner

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Oct 3, 2017
    Messages:
    970
    Likes Received:
    1,676
    Gender:
    Male
    Not Rush just the bong
     
    JackieTreehorn and SuperDilf like this.
  9. SuperDilf

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 4, 2017
    Messages:
    941
    Likes Received:
    720
    Gender:
    Male
    Any given Cream album?
     
  10. privatepartner

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Oct 3, 2017
    Messages:
    970
    Likes Received:
    1,676
    Gender:
    Male
    Or Clapton Behind the Sun
    I love that one smoked up
     
    smooth69, sankay and SuperDilf like this.
  11. SuperDilf

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 4, 2017
    Messages:
    941
    Likes Received:
    720
    Gender:
    Male
    Nothing like sex while high, makes your cock feel like a cum filled fire hose! I nut super hard when high.
     
    Gmsexycpl likes this.
  12. afunk13

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Dec 7, 2015
    Messages:
    1,117
    Likes Received:
    1,404
    Gender:
    Female
    Have you talked to her in a nonconfrontational way and without blaming her? Could be a multitude of things.
     
  13. Hypersexual11

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Dec 14, 2015
    Messages:
    367
    Likes Received:
    652
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Southern Idaho
    Clean the house. Vacuum, pick up, clean the kitchen, buy her something that she knows you hate buying, like flowers. Make her a dinner that shows you made an effort. Get her a blanket for the couch and rub her feet.
    We think that women should be able to just turn it on but they are more complicated. Sometimes, even the wife needs to be seduced.
     
    GH057, SWOJLO, smooth69 and 1 other person like this.
  14. Long stroke

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 15, 2017
    Messages:
    321
    Likes Received:
    802
    My wife at age 53 goes thru these same things from time to time. I can usually take her out for a romantic night of dinner and dancing with some serious flirting during the evening. Once we get back home, I'll put on some slow music, kiss her neck, touch her inside thigh and squeeze her ass while I'm holding her. Usually by then she's leading me to the bedroom. She's had a hysterectomy a few years ago which really diminished her sex drive and she doesn't soak her panties in wetness anymore like she used to but when I really pour it on like that, she can't help herself and she ends up fucking my brains out!
     
  15. sensless

    sensless Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 2, 2015
    Messages:
    3,746
    Likes Received:
    6,568
    Gender:
    Female
    She could be bored. Next time you get the opportunity, make sex more exciting. Sweep her off her feet!
     
  16. scar69

    scar69 Banned

    Joined:
    Aug 19, 2014
    Messages:
    383
    Likes Received:
    397
    Gender:
    Female
  17. SuperDilf

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 4, 2017
    Messages:
    941
    Likes Received:
    720
    Gender:
    Male
    Ingredients to horny;

    1. Foot rub
    2. Coconut oil massage
    3. Cannabis
    4. Dinner
    5. Butt plug

    Not in that order.
     
    smooth69 likes this.
  18. sensless

    sensless Well-Known Member

    Joined:
    Sep 2, 2015
    Messages:
    3,746
    Likes Received:
    6,568
    Gender:
    Female
    I felt like coming back to stress on what I've said.

    So many think a female sexuality is a lot about the brain. But sex is so often repetitive. In general, the way to stimulate a muscle is by changing the way you use it, by challenging it. It's no different for the brain.

    If you've been repetitive and predictable about sex, with the years, it's difficult to get excited about it and the promise of an orgasm isn't enough to get going.
     
  19. Lovnflman

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 29, 2015
    Messages:
    1,026
    Likes Received:
    1,228
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Florida

    This is one reason that I think married couples should step out of the box once in a while and either bring in an additional person(s) or the wife be allowed to go on a "date". I know that after each and every one of our MFMs my wife was so horny for several weeks and was always ready to go. By sharing her with another man/woman we both benefitted from allowing her being with others.
     
    sensless likes this.
  20. SuperDilf

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 4, 2017
    Messages:
    941
    Likes Received:
    720
    Gender:
    Male
    So true, throw a rim job in the mix unannounced every now and then. She’ll thank you for it later...... or slap you, nah! She’ll love it.
     
  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice