My guy told me at the beginning, he prefers a woman to not be shaven. Which was a shock to me. First time. I was kinda happy, because I'd get ingrown hairs for shaving and my skin was too sensative there for nair. So I use to just trim it with scissors. But he likes the hair really thick. Lucky for him, I'm Italian/Puerto Rican...Sasquatch is in my blood. I just figured the majority of guys like a girl to be "clean". The only complaint about not trimming is I get extra concious about cleanliness.