Hi all! I'm newish here. I admit that I lurked for a little while in "incognito" mode before deciding to create an account. :eyes I'm in my 30s, married for 14 years with 2 great kids. DH and I recently started rediscovering our sexuality, you could say. Like most young people, we were like bunny rabbits when we first got together. I grew up a goody-goody, but DH released my demon side (he was my first), and once the seal was broken (so to speak), that was that. Then college and more college happened, DH had some health problems, and 2 kids 4.5 years apart, and our sexual life kinda fizzled. Was never extinguished entirely or anything. No major issues, just not a lot of extra attention payed to it. I don't know what happened recently to provoke the spice, but spiced up we have gotten. We just ordered a bunch of new toys, we started talking about our fantasies (boy howdy, did we ever!!), and we're having sex and exploring new avenues (literally and figuratively) at every opportunity (which is not as many as we'd like, with a 2 year-old who co-sleeps). So, we're going on a cruise in 10 days, just the 2 of us, to celebrate our 14 years, and we plan to take all our toys and all our fantasies and have a really good, hot time in the Caribbean for a week with no kids or relatives. Now I'm joining this board to talk about sex on the internet (GASP!). Nobody tell my parents, they'd have a coronary, lol. I started off pretty up tight about sex (that whole "abstinence only" thing that was drilled into us in elementary school was about all I knew), but now I'm getting pretty loose in my old age, and learning all kinds of wild and crazy things I'd like to try, or at least watch on youporn, lol!