We are new here, of course, and we are an average married couple living outside of Sacramento, CA. We joined to see about getting some ideas on how to add some spice to our sex lives even though we do not have any problems in this area. I mentioned to Sam that one of his friends seemed very nice. Sam made a joke that we should surprise him for his birthday and that I give him a blow job. I actually agreed but I am not sure if it is the right thing to do. I do want to give him some oral pleasure but nothing else. I am asking advice. I want to do it but I am concerned about ramifications. Sam suggested that I see if someone on this site has had this experience or can offer some good advice.