Hi there I'd like some advices on how to get my girlfriend free her mind and completely get herself into while having sex. She kind of denies having orgasms, actually she never had an orgasm before and it started to bother me. She is not deniable in doing anything, she has pretty nice shaped and beautiful body, nothing to be ashamed of, actually, as she said, she feels really comfortable in her body, she is not frigid... but simply cant just relax and enjoy it. We talked a lot about it and she said its her, her mind, not anything at my part. She doesnt feel "right" when we are about to have sex, she is kind of scared, feels like it will hurt her in some way, emotionally and mentally, like she will be smitten if she allows herself to have an orgasm. I had difficult time talking to her about it as she gets angry when we speak about it, as she feels mad at herself for being such, now its a bit better as she is trying to fight this. I recommended her to talk to an older/more experienced women about it, as I cant explain anything to her as a female would, also to masturbate (she never did this before) as much as she feels comfortable with it... She will read all your inputs so anything you say that might help we will be very thankful.