The term "married up" applies to me if it's ever been applicable to anyone. My wife takes care of herself very well and is a sexually oriented person. She embraced her sexuality long ago and as a result, has had quite a few encounters. She's been open and honest with me over the years about her experiences whenever I've asked. I find it thrilling to hear of her past exploits as I've had very little myself. I gained first hand perspective a couple weeks ago when I found a series of sex tapes on a hard drive. I've watched them numerous times and like them quite a bit. I'm intrigued as to why I'm so excited by the videos. I feel like most husbands would be angry she's kept them in secret. I'm here to get opinions from others and explore this revelation further. Thank you and nice to meet you.