why is it that women almost always moan louder and more frequently during sex? whether its porn or real, it's always the woman you hear moaning and hollering the most and loudest. even when a man does vocalize, it's more grunting than moaning. what's up with that? i hope at least a few guys will respond to this because i'm very curious: how does your vocal reaction to pleasure compare with that of the partners you've had? when you're having sex, does it occur to you to make more noise (or less noise?) do you think it's feminine to do lots of moaning and gasping? what's going through your mind when you think about the sounds you're making? me personally, i'm actually the most turned on by hearing a man whimper and moan very much like a girl. it's arousing to me to hear a dude so desperate and vulnerable.