I feel so lost, confused and deprived. :cry I feel like my boyfriend is crap in bed and I can't do anything about it. I try to show him how to pleasure me but he always says 'no no let me do it', and if I push him further he gets defensive. We had had problems in the past with him not liking to look at my pussy or even open it up. Oral sex was once non-existant but even now that I finally persuaded him into doing it, it feels CRAP and I get no pleasure!! All our sex are quickies with him not bothering to pleasure me in any other way, he NEVER kisses anywhere below my shoulders without me having to ask for it. It's a friggin' struggle and though I would never ever cheat, I have thought about what other men are like. We have been together 3 years. It is very rare when I'm around him for me to feel so turned on that I start pulsing down there and just want to be screwed silly. ARRRR, I feel like screaming in rage. He has changed in some ways for me but most of the time it does feel like getting blood out of a stone. Not only that, but most of the time he can't keep it hard for more than 5 seconds if he moves/changes position from lying down. Recently I've been getting so frustrated because he tried putting his dick in me when it's soft and it actually hurts for me! So I tell him to stop and he gets defensive and frustrated! The rest of the relationships fine tbh, other than the fact he hates me hanging out with other single blokes even though they are just friends.