When I was younger and a heavy ejaculator, Freshman, Softmore year, I was always worried about getting caught. I wasn't in as great of shape as other kids, a little tummy, nothing big, and was insecure about myself. All the guys got blowjobs, well, a lot, but not me, as I wasn't quite sure with myself and my not up to expectations peter (At least that's what I thought at the time). I just masturbated off to porn, or to girls from school in my mind. Anyways, one day, I am ejaculating in the living room, (Yep, took my chances, didn't like to get up and go to my room and lock the door) and my mom comes around the corner and sees me. I have never talked to my dad about anything like that before, but boy was I embarassed. He told me it was a normal thing, which made me feel more comfortable, but boy, you should have seen my face when my mom saw me! :ugh Just thought I'd share a funny story... and finally the last couple of stages came in at the end of my Sophomore year... Anyways, I may as well post another question with this thread, I like to caress my girlfriend all over her body, I like to kiss her feet, legs, thighs, stomach, breasts, neck, lips, ass, ass crack, pussy, etc etc. However, recently, she has just wanted to get to the fingering and licking of the vagina or the fucking. Is she getting tired of the caressing? She doesn't mine sucking me, but doesn't want to waste the time with my on her, a bit weird eh? Not what you would expect. Anyways, is this normal? I mean I wouldn't mind just going to the fucking, but I want her to enjoy her experience. Any suggestions? Also, do girls fantasize about fucking guys in the ass with a dildo? I think my girlfriend wants to do that with me, which I find a bit messed up, but haven't said anything yet, any comments?