Does being on this site have any effect on your marriage or relationship with your partner?

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  1. sankay

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    I'm curious about this. I feel for the most part my marriage is better because I get on this site..I feel sexier, more desirable and I bring that back to our relationship, especially the sexual part. What are your thoughts?
     
  2. Southernboy14

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    I love this site for the same reason I feel it helps my marriage allows us to explore sexual
     
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    It's nice that you're both on it...
     
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    Yes it's very nice, at first it started out as just mine. I felt like I was. Cheating I'd stay up to masterbate just no fun. I went to her told her everything I look at nude men women everything. Now it's mainly me but lay in bed next to her she doesn't mind.
     
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    One thing she did is if I'm on here and she doesn't want sex and need to masterbate is I will do it in front of her
     
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  6. sankay

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    Yeah that was going to be my other question.. do you ever feel guilty..it's nice that you shared it with her and that she accepts it...
     
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    Yes I started to feel guilty. Now I don't feel so much better bc she know what going on.
     
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    This site has definitely made me more aroused and open to things but unfortunately I can't benefit from my wife on account of her health issues.
     
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    Wife knew I was and did not care but then she cared little about me in general. Several lovers also knew but declined to explore and now SO just drops in to check that I am being a good lad and not doing stuff that she would object to. This place is like home to me now and I have a number of close virtual friends of both sexes and sexual persuasion which sometimes differ to mine which makes it an interesting experience.
     
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    For me it is cheating. But it's a safe outlet. When she opens up more in a physically intimate way, I will quit.
     
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    I'm here because we don't have a sex life. It's an outlet for me!
     
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    Thanks for responding.. it must be frustrating at times for you. But it's nice that you have this place to go as an outlet...
     
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    Glad you have this outlet.. I've often thought we should be able to have stand ins for when our spouses aren't in the same place sexually..At this stage of our lives I seem to be the more sexual one in our marriage.the sex is good but I want it more often.. We are very open and I've asked if I could have a lover at times but he's just can't go there..
    Thus.. this site is a good outlet for me too...;-)
     
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    Yes! Our sex life is sooooo much better. I gained alot more confidence ;) usually when he told me Im sexy I always had the usual "you love me, you have to say it" hehe... Its been a good experience for us both. Reading about others struggles and experiences made us realise there is still a few things left we would love to try ;D
     
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    And I'm all the happier for that!
     
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    I can't imagine him ever denying a gem of a prize as you. Shame on him. Your beautiful and sexy and can't imagine him not appreciating what he has. I wish I was able to please you.
     
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    Thanks for your candid response.. do you have hopes she'll open up in a more intimate way? I hope the pleasure and satisfaction outweighs the feeling of cheating...
     
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    Thank you..if he ever ok's the stand ins I'll look you up! He pleasures me just not as often as I desire..
     
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    In the mean time ....I'll just enjoy myself over you sexy pics
     
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    Sounds like a good plan to me! ;):rolleyes:
     
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