So, some of you think people don't say what you want to hear and the reason some person comes back to you is the excellent sex you provide. I never thought you didn't believe in it, otherwise I wouldn't have written these posts. ___________ Going back to my post, I don't think I've said women were the only ones doing it and, in case I didn't make it clear, men do the same. I'm afraid this part of the message didn't pass. Men will do anything to get sex, any sex, seing as it's a break from one's hand. That includes telling the woman anything she wants to hear and agreeing with anything she says. The behavior is encouraged. I've read in many threads that a man should show interest in what the woman does. Showing interest in what one isn't interested is a lie and a mean one, at that. The woman will perhaps make decisions believing his behavior and interest are genuine. I don't know if when one says "men", or "women" it's like saying "all men"/"all women". I never mean "all". There are exceptions to all rules. It is normal to think we're different, better, we're the exceptions, so much better than everybody else, we're fantastic, no one ever lies to us, why would they?!? It isn't realistic, though. We all have strong points and weaker ones.