It's always been a kind of milestone in relationships when I've told my partners that they don't have to wear condoms anymore and that my own birth control will be enough. I say I tell them because Its a decision that I've always felt is mine alone to make. I've never put up with guys moaning about having to wear one. For me it only felt a little different when the guy wasn't wearing one although the semen could be a bit icky when not contained in a neat little latex baggie. But whether or not they say it directly I have noticed a big difference in the way they have sex. they tend to finish a little quicker, to be a little more confident I think it can be a mood killer for a man when he has to roll a condom on, and I find the frequency of sex tends to increase. Anywho those are just a few observations I've made so what about everybody else.