OK me and my girlfriend of over 3 years are broken up, it has ended and I do not see us getting back together anytime soon. So, here I am single again and going to try and start to meet new women. I am now 19, soon to be 20 and I have a question for you ladies. When the relationship is first starting, would you want to guy to make the first move (outside of the standard kiss, I mean a move that gets a little more personal)? (assuming both parties are ready and comfortable in the sitation) or would you like him to let you make the first move? or...does it not matter? This was one thing my ex-g/f told me sometime ago, she thought it would have been more 'romantic' had I made the first move. It wasn't I didn't want to, I just didn't want to make a mistake of moving to quick.