My wife and I have been arguing about our budget. So that has been going on for a few days. I decided to cut back on what sex I might expect, but not cut myslef off from all sex in th marriage. I just decided to settle for less of what I want, but still ejaculate in the marital bed. Last night I slept on the couch for a while, then went up to bed. I usually take off my wife's clothes, massage her, and get permission for at least dry humping. Usually I apply vaseline to her vagina, but last night I left her alone. Last night, I left her clothes on. I just massaged her a little, and then massaged her but, and did some circles just near the start of her ass crack. I pumped for a good while, breathed heavily, and climaxed. Shortly after I climaxed, my wife began putting her feet on my legs and stomach, an indication she was ready for more. I was exhausted and went to sleep. Today, my wife called from her work, and compromised on some issues regarding visiting some relatives on my side. In the past, I might go sleep in my travel trailer or get a cheap motel for the night if she wants to be unpleasant. Last night, I reduced my request for her participation in marital sex, to about the bare minimum, and she seemed to understand my strategy of disagreeing in an agreeable manner. Is there a way to cut marital sex further back?